Ladies I encourage you to be mindful of what you post on social media pages dealing with complications to your relationship or martial status. Social Media is new play ground for pimps to get inside your mind and pockets. They will use your complicated relationship status as a way of telling you everything your man is not telling you or doing. A pimp will always start off as nice guy but at the same time he will study you to find out your weaknesses, strengthens and vulnerabilities & he will use all 3 against you to get what he want from you. A pimp ultimate goal is to get inside your mind once he got your mind he got you. He can control you by mind manipulation to do anything he want to do to you. A pimp loves no one but himself & his money. All it takes is a lie and conservation for a pimp to violate you. The pimp I was involved with told me his brother died & since I previously showed much compassionate to my loved ones or people that had passed away on Facebook, he used that against me to use me for my money. Being pimped can happen to anyone you can be the most smartest woman & about your paper but if the right pimp comes along he can pimp you out of your paper.

Most of the ones that are on Social Media have been in the pimp game for a while so they know what to tell each one they have already studied. We as ladies can leave our-self wide open thinking it can’t happen to us or be in the needy era of wanting a man so bad we are willing to accept anything to say we have a man but the man we claim only call or text when he wants something. Queens, the majority of the pimps pimping today have a stable which consists of 10 or more women each stable will always have a bottom chick and a ride or die chick. The pimp always uses both of these women against each other. The bottom chick’s main job is to keep the other women in line and she always down to keep the ride or die chick up on her game of bringing in the money.

The pimp knows the “ride or die” chick wants the bottom chick position so he will keep them at each other but at the same time he got eyes on his money which is the ladies in the stable. A pimp will isolate you from friends and family because he does not want them to tell you the truth he is only using you for your money. Be mindful of the man who never wants you to be around anyone but him. Now if you have some toxic people in your circle that’s different but I’m talking about a man controlling who you can and cannot talk to.

A pimp will not answer his phone or text messages for days and this is a form of mental abuse to get you to break down and come co-dependent on him to the point you are feeling you can not live without this man. Once he got you to this point, he can take you for everything you got. Anytime you’re involved with a pimp an ungodly soul-ties forms, which is an emotional bond that form attachment.  Shameless plug I have a brother in the gospel who is anointed to help you break free from ungodly soul-ties his name is Del “Soul Ties” Lawrence he has written a book name Soul Ties.

If you are giving a man money right now & he is not your husband or significant other I encourage you to cut the money off & you will see if you have been pimped. I never want any Queen to experienced this toxic situation so please keep your complicated relationship status off of Facebook & be mindful of what you post & never be so lonely that you become desperate to fall victim of being pimped. May God bless each one who reads my webpage and may it put you up on game so you don’t fall for the game.